
This is a picture of my Big Sister, Emma. She died over a year ago and I never got to meet her, but my parents talk about her a lot. She lived in this house before I did. Now my mom keeps her ashes in a box. The box sits on a special little altar in our house.
I decided I would ask a few questions about Emma and what happened to her. I don't understand why she isn't here anymore, because I would really love to have another dog in the house to play with.
I learned that Emma was a rescue, like me, from the Humane Society. She was about 3 or 4 years old when she joined my family. Emma had a great time for about 12 more years. As she got older, her hair got more gray and she didn't move as fast as she used to. Finally she did not even get up to say hello when people came home, and could not lift her head up anymore. Emma was in a lot of pain.
Sometimes we can help pets stop hurting, if we know there is no way they will ever feel better. The veterinarian can give them something so they no longer feel the pain. But it also means that they die and can no longer be with us. Mom says that it was better for Emma to stop hurting. Even though she misses Emma very very much, it was a good thing to be able to help her.
It is sad to miss pets and people who have died. But in my house, we talk about Emma and tell funny stories about what she was like. This way, we never forget about her.
Why don't you ask your family about a pet, or even somebody they really cared about who died?
I bet you will hear lots of fun stories, too.
Peace, Love and Happiness,
Remy
2 comments:
Hi Remy. I love reading your notes. I used to have two big sisters, and I mean BIG, compared to me because I am only eight months old. Like you, I had one sister I never knew. That was Buffer. We have pictures of her, but no ashes. My other sister was Tosca. I knew her, but she was very sick by the time I was born, so I didn't get to play with her much. She was in a lot of pain, so she wasn't able to play, but sometimes she let me know that she wanted to play. I was sad for her. i tried to make her feel better by jumping on her and running all around her, but it didn't work too well. She's gone now, and I miss her. Please keep writing your blog. I love you.
Your friend, Vertex the CCI dog
Hi Vertex-
Thanks for sharing your story about your sisters that have passed away. The kids in YRE have been talking about when pets die and how they miss them, too. I know hearing your story will help them know that everyone misses their friends and family when they have died. But it's also nice to know that talking about them helps you remember.
Lots of love back to you, too!
Remy xoxo
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